I know you’ve got something weird about you (and when I say weird, I mean that as high praise 🙌🏻.)
It’s something distinctly you, whether it’s a secret hobby or the way you laugh. Or it’s your elaborate collection of whatevers. Or that in private you’re way more childlike than anyone knows. Maybe you talk to yourself (erm…don’t we all?). Maybe you fantasize about having a ginormous animal sanctuary. Or living on Mars JIC a zombie apocalypse happens.
It’s your traits and ambitions, desires, values, beliefs, and everything big and small about you that really make up who you are. And being those things without hiding makes you feel so happy. And free!
I’ve heard different stories from so many clients who all struggled with the same pain of living a life that didn’t reflect who they felt they were on the inside.
When you’re hiding your authenticity you are:
Some of my clients came to me feeling hopeless, unsure of what would even bring them joy. Others had a quiet inkling that there was something they were meant to pursue, or be more of, but they worried it was just a big, dumb idea.
Each person’s story had different details, but the deep, restless ache was the same. It doesn’t matter your gender, socioeconomic status, race, religion or whether you like red velvet cake or not. Every single person longs to feel free in his/her own skin, and be who they feel they are meant to be inside.
Here’s what I will help you with:
Here’s what you’ll get:
What if I can’t make all of the meetings?
Your workbook will have all of the exercises and our curriculum so you’ll have everything you need. Plus, you’ll have access to the ongoing group discussion. Zoom calls will be recorded as well.
How much will I have to share in this group?
Sharing is 100% up to you. You are welcome to engage as much or as little as you want to. You’re going to learn and have tools to apply either way.
I’m interested but I still have questions.
Let’s chat. Shoot me a message and we’ll coordinate a time to talk: email@example.com
I want you to feel seen and heard as authentically as you can be. I want you to feel radiantly confident in your skin, so much so that you feel liberated. I want you to love who you are, how you dress, the way you show up, the way you connect with people, what you do in the world—I want you to experience all of that the way your soul (or your heart or insides, whatever resonates) wants to truly be.
Life is too short and too amazing to waste the whole journey worrying about what other people think and trying to live up to other people’s expectations.
And I know it fucking hurts to do that. It’s so painful inside when there’s part of you that just wants to come alive. When you suppress who you are because part of you is trying to fit in, or appease, or doesn’t feel safe to be authentic.
You watch other people in life, admire them for their courage or confidence or humor or style or success or whatever—because you see a part of you in them, but yours is on mute. (If you currently don’t believe that what you admire is a reflection back of who you are, just borrow my belief for now and roll with it.)
Life wasn’t meant to be lived by someone else’s blueprint. You have your own version inside and if you ignore it, you will always be unfulfilled, searching for something to fill that void. But it’s like baking (which I’m not the best at but I get how it works).
Baking is precise and unforgiving. What the recipe wants is what it wants, and if you don’t follow it, then your bread won’t be fluffy, your cinnamon rolls won’t rise, your muffins will be gluey…you know how it is.
Same with you, friend. Your internal blueprint knows what it wants for you to feel your absolute best. To be happy, successful, free, fulfilled—to live the kind of life you could love and feel incredibly proud of.
Once you know who you are and feel safe expressing it all, you’ll be confident no matter what room you walk into. You’ll have clarity of your yeses and nos. You’ll always be able to figure out your next steps in life, so you won’t get stuck or feel unsure of how to move forward.
So, wanna get crackin’? I know this can feel like such a tall order, it can feel scary and delicate and just safer to stay-the-fuck-put. But I promise you, you will never ever miss feeling small. You will never miss the internal angst, the longing, the suffering, the frustration, the “what-ifs”, the sidelines of life. And I promise you I’ll help you take this journey one step at a time.
So you’re here, and you might be wondering, well who the heck died and made her so confident?! The answer is, my old self. Dannng that old Juli was…not confident.
She did try to be. She competed in Musclemania, thought that being in great shape would do the trick. Nope. Got hired at a top-company-to-work-for with the salary and benefits. But puffy paychecks couldn’t do it either. She listened to what people said she was, who people said she was, and acted accordingly. Until she suffered long enough and jumped off a metaphorical cliff into the unknown as she pursued her journey to true happiness and self-expression.
So Hola, Bonjour, Hey there! It’s me now, the Juli you came to see.
I’m a Certified Life Coach, I live in Houston, TX with my three handsome men (two are dogs, one is a husband).
I’ve been private coaching, group coaching, leading workshops and hosting retreats for almost 4 years. I’ve worked with more people than I can count, and I never ever ever ever ever ever tire of helping people to feel happier, more confident and connected to their purpose.
I wouldn’t have made the cheerleading squad back in HS for all the coordinated movements and things I generally didn’t care for…but I promise I will be the best cheerleader you’ve ever had.
Anything else you want to know, I’m happy to answer. Whether I’m the coach for you or not, thanks for being a human who invests in their growth, and who aspires to be the best person they can in this lifetime. You make the world a better place. Cheers! Jules